Father’s Day brings a mix of emotions for me as I reflect on the challenging ups and downs I’ve faced throughout my life. Some of the most difficult times were those when I desperately wished for a dad to talk to, someone to help me work through my struggles and offer guidance. Growing up in the State/foster care system often left me yearning for that fatherly presence.
Though I didn’t have many foster fathers, the few who did step into that role offered their own unique encouragements. In their own direct, yet somewhat muted way, they provided an example of which directions I could take when handling tough decisions. Their words and actions, positive or otherwise, still helped to develop strengths within me.
On this Father’s Day—now a father myself,—I am grateful for those moments of guidance and the lasting influence they’ve had on my life.
Happy Father’s Day!
